Detox Your Life, Stay Away from Negative People! 远离负能量的人!

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Detox Your Life, Stay Away from Negative People! The author Michael Bassey Johnson has a great quote: “You don’t buy all the clothes in the market. You choose slowly and carefully, asking the prices for each before buying. The same way you choose your friends, by looking into their lives carefully, before taking any as […]

Time,by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

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时间比金钱更有价值,你可以取得更多金钱,但你不能取得更多时间。 Shíjiān bǐ jīnqián gèng yǒu jiàzhí, nǐ kěyǐ qǔdé gèng duō jīnqián, dàn nǐ bùnéng qǔdé gèng duō shíjiān Time is more valuable than money. You can get more money, but you cannot get more time. 【时间】 金钱能够储蓄,而时间不能储蓄。金钱可以从别人那里借,而时间不能借。人生这个银行里还剩下多少时间也无从知道。很多人都认为价值是用金钱来计算的。实际上,价值是要用时间来计算的,因为时间比金钱更重要。有效地利用时间、珍惜时间只有一个方法,那就是在你的生活中确立一个目标,,并且尽心尽力地去实现这一个目标,而一个人没有奋斗目标就是在浪费时间。 You can save up money, but you can’t save time. You can borrow money, but not […]

Encouragement,by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

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“领导”是鼓励他人、激励他人、让他们成就他们所能成就的事,并且朝着目标行动。 Lǐngdǎo shì gǔlì tārén, jīlì tārén, ràng tāmen chéngjiù tāmen suǒ néng chéngjiù de shì, bìngqiě cháozhe mùbiāo xíngdòng Leadership is about encouraging people. It’s about stimulating them. It’s about enabling them to achieve what they can achieve – and to do that with a purpose. 【激励】 能够激励他人是下属对领导人对最高期望之一。领导人一般会高度评价自己的激励能力,而下属却一直都认为领导的激励能力最差。众所周知,大多数人不是想离开公司,而是要离开自己的老板。所以,作为领导人的,一定得学会如何关心下属,激励他们,让他们感受到你的用心,下属自然会更卖力的为你效劳! To inspire one’s employees and workers […]

At peace,by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

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享受自己的生活,不要和别人比较。 Xiǎngshòu zìjǐ de shēnghuó, bùyào hé biérén bǐjiào Enjoy your own life without comparing it with that of another. 【自在】 “人外有人,天外有天”,每个人都有自己的特点,每个人都是独一无二一的奇迹,尺有所短,寸有所长,不必要拿自己的优点与别人的缺点作比较,也不必要经常自叹某处总不如人,因为没有谁可以号称完美。 No one is perfect. Everyone is unique. There is absolutely no necessity for you to compare yourself with another person. Don’t over-inflate your strengths, and don’t beat yourself up for your weaknesses. Be […]

Believing,by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

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相信自己!相信你的能力!对于自己的力量,没有谦虚而合理的自信,你就不会成功或幸福。 Xiāngxìn zìjǐ! Xiāngxìn nǐ de nénglì! Duìyú zìjǐ de lìliàng, méiyǒu qiānxū ér hélǐ de zìxìn, nǐ jiù bù huì chénggōng huò xìngfú Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. 【相信】 一个人几乎无法在不相信自己的情况下而获得成功,成功的人都是百分之百相信自己未来会成功,才造就后来的成就。 很多人都希望获得成功,但内心却从来不相信自己能够取得巨大成就,在希望与内心的认知之间产生了歧异,因此局限了自己的发展。 一个人若对自己失去了信心,便很难有所成就,强大的信心是让自己能够坚持下去的原动力,问问自己:”相信自己会成功吗?” It is almost […]

Being yourself,by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

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在这个一直想把你改造成别人的世界里,“做自己”是最伟大的成就。 Zài zhège yīzhí xiǎng bǎ nǐ gǎizào chéng biérén de shìjiè lǐ,“zuò zìjǐ” shì zuì wěidà de chéngjiù To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. 【做自己】 努力,再加上做自己喜欢、有热情的事情,就会让自己坚持下去。每个人都需要认真地做自己,只有做自己你才不会迷失自我,只有做自己,你才能体会其实你的存在有其意义。 别让那些功成名就迷惑了你,那些都是附加的,只有做自己,别人才会真得尊敬你。做人要拿望远镜看别人,拿放大镜看自己。人要选择做自己喜欢的事情,才会禁得起挫折,也才能够做得好,容易做得成功。 The key to perseverance is to be yourself and do what you love. All […]

Life isn’t Perfect, but You can Decide Your Future! 你有选择未来的权利

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The Art of Letting Go 学会选择,懂得放下

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Learning,by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

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失败如果能从失败中学习,那么失败就是成功。 Shībài rúguǒ néng cóng shībài zhōng xuéxí, nàme shībài jiùshì chéng Failure is success if we learn from it. 【学习】 人生是一场永无止境的学习,失败能教你的比成功更多。但在失败中还能学习并不容易,你必须刻意练习,才能在不如意的时候还能保持正向思考,汲取失败的教训。 成就大事的人会用不同的方式看待失败。他们并不会去遮掩自己的错误,更不会从失败中落荒而逃。他们的态度从来就不是“人生不是赢,就是输”,相反的,他们抱持的态度是:“人生不是赢,就是学习。”他们深信,人生遭遇的任何情境,无论是在工作中或生活上,只要能正确运用,都能转化成为我们前进的动力。 Life is a continuous process of learning. Often, failures teach us more things than successes do. In our failure, we need to learn not just how to do things better, but also […]