Life isn’t Perfect, but You can Decide Your Future! 你有选择未来的权利

赖彩云 Jessy Lai Chai Yun-life
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I was cleaning out some old books and albums, and so went through photos and letters from many years ago. I must say, it was a pleasant trip down memory lane.

It is normal to feel nostalgic once in a while. It is a sign that you have had great memories in life, and you should feel good about it. But we need to beware of being overly obsessed with our past. It can mean that you have unfulfilled wishes in life.

In my work, I get to meet a lot of young people. One of them once asked me: “If you could turn back time, what would you change, and why?”

My answer to this question will always remain the same: I do not leave myself room for regrets, regardless which stage of life I’m in. Regrets do nothing to make my life better.

Many young people feel lost about life, and have no idea what to do or where to go. Their fear of the unknown future can often cause them to give up great opportunities, or worse, cause them to stagnate in life. There are also many who choose to retreat from life’s hardships and struggles. They hide in their little bunker, until life passes them by and then they realise they perhaps should have embraced risks a bit more.

There is a famous quote that goes: “When you look back on life, it looks like a well thought out script. But when you’re in it, it all feels like one big mess. One unexpected event follows another, yet when you connect the dots on hindsight, it all makes perfect sense.”

This quote is an appropriate encouragement for the youths of today. You need to believe in your choices, and stay faithful to your passion.

The days of your youth may face great obstacles and challenges that will change the course of your life. You will be hard pressed on all sides and there might be little room for you to breath. You can lose control of things, and you can get frightened.

But please do not back out and do not give up. What you face now are all but necessary process of life. As long as you stay true to your passion and your calling in life, I am sure you will find your way out of the mess one day.

Let me assure you—true enjoyment and satisfaction only comes after sufferings and pain. Be patient, and your day will come.

We live in a time of confusion and information overload. You need to spend huge amounts of effort to determine what you really want in life. Amidst all of this, do remember that you always have the power to choose. Do not forfeit opportunities just because you think you’re not good enough. Don’t let self doubt hold you back.

Chances wait for nobody, and you get no second chance in life. If you give up now, you will surely regret it one day.

Sure, tangible goals and plans are important, but it is also crucial to add a dash of boldness and a pinch of passion.

Stay true to yourself, and let your dreams bring you to places you have never imagined.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ width=”1/2″][vc_column_text]年轻人,人生或许不完美,但你有选择未来的权利!















机会不等人,生命也没有Take Two,你此刻选择放弃,未来你将后悔你今天所做的决定。





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