The concepts of “self-doubt” and “persistence”.

Some people wait their whole life for something, and get nothing.
Some people do nothing, and had everything handed to them.
If we compare ourselves to each other, we’ll only suffer in anger.

We talk about making peace with our circumstances, but it’s not an easy thing to do.

How do we know what we should work hard for, and what’s worth letting go?
We like to think we know the difference, but every now and then, we can’t help but wonder.
Did we do something wrong earlier on that landed us in constant troubles?
Did we pursue the things that were meant to be let go, and let go of the things that matter?

This feeling is common, but unnecessary. Never punish yourself for past mistakes. It’s a waste of your precious time, and you have to ask yourself: is it worth it?

 

自我怀疑 与 坚持 的意义

有人苦苦等待一生都等不到,
有的人顺其自然长大就水到渠成,
老话说得好 人比人气死,货比货得扔。

所谓“命中注定”这四个字,
总是说说容易,接受起来却很难。
人活在这个世界上,什么是该坚持的,什么是该放弃的,
我们常常在当时觉得自己很明白,但回过头去看,
总是开始怀疑自己如此的命运,
是不是因为当初曾做错,后来屡屡错。

怀疑自己总是坚持了不该坚持的,
放弃了不该放弃的,才造成今天的遗憾。

相信很多人都会陷入这样不断回望过往的情形,然而在我看来,根本无须这么做,我从来不看过去,只看现在,千万别让曾经的过错,惩罚现在的自己,而浪费了宝贵的时光,这样非常不值的吗,不是吗?